Fuck Buddy 101

So a few things, you have every right to hate me for not posting. Also it's been a year since Vaga has been going strong! Yay for the blog! But let's get into the real fun stuff now!

So you found yourself a fuck buddy you say? Well Vaga is here to point out all the things on how to keep this relationship as great as it can be. Let's face it Vaga doesn't want it if it can't dick her down.

I'll get only slightly personal here (because, sharing the descriptions of Vaga's best and worst time's isn't enough) my fuck buddy, A.K. is not only used for his mouth and penis, but also because we've formed a genuine friendship.

Okay fuckboys and ladies, here are main things to keep an active, healthy, and great fuck buddy relationship

1) Communication! Both of you need to verbally address what exactly it is you guys want and what you are doing. A.K. and I expressed things pretty quickly and being adults, you should be able to talk to the person you are having sex with. If you feel you can't speak to this person for any reason, then maybe they aren't the right person to get naked with. If you can't speak about what terms you guys are on, then how are you supposed express what you like sexually? (Vaga is a very verbal individual, she lets you know when to whip out the dick!)

2) No romantic attachments allowed. This is essential to keeping this relationship stable and active. This isn't some romantic comedy where after spending time with you, he's going to fall in love and realize he can't live without you. This is real life and it's just sex, that's it. Now, if you feel you can't handle this or believe that sex is emotional and should be shared with someone you are emotional about, then don't go trying to have a fuck buddy. There have been a couple times where either myself, or A.K was seeing someone and we completely respected each other. We would still hang out (we work on music) but it was nothing sexual. (Vaga greatly disagreed when I would see him and not let her have fun, she told me a few things not even appropriate to write on my own blog!) So unless you can detach emotions from sex, don't have a fuck buddy

3) Be friends...After A.K and I have sex, we will chill and talk. No, it's not pillow talk and we aren't cuddling. We usually sit across from each other half dressed and just talk about random shit. We also talk a lot of shit to each other, but jokingly. We keep it friendly and because of that, we actually have formed a genuine friendship. When I've needed someone to talk to, he's been there as my friend and he's awesome!! Even aside from sex, he is someone I could be around and just go out for drinks with, which we have done.

4) I briefly touched on this above but if you are both fuck buddies, and have agreed on all terms then don't even think about being affectionate. I'm talking about cuddling after sex, holding hands and such. Everyone is different, but for me those things are off limits unless we are actually dating. Guys, listen up! To women, we take and perceive affection different than how you might mean to portray it. For example a simple kiss on the forehead, it's an action that represents giving someone a safe environment, and if you are not the person I am with, then back the fuck up and kiss Vaga instead!

If you're the kind of person that believes in the emotions and intimacy that comes with sex, then please don't have fuckbuddy. Otherwise you will become the girl that guys make fun of for getting attached and going crazy once he ignores you. Now, if you believe that sex is fun and you got an itch to scratch, then go for it, just don't catch feelings (Vaga doesn't love these hoes)

Happy Fucking!