No Point in Taming What You Can't Handle

Two sayings that Vaga would like to shed some light on are

1) Lady in the street but a freak in the sheets

2) saying "this is my pussy" in the sheets but can't act like my man in the street

1) Now for the first statement, here is my issue with that. Most guys when talking to their boys love to promote what a freak their girl is in the bedroom. So it's ok to tell the homies what we do, but if were to somehow express a little bit of vulgarity in public then it's an issue?! Vaga don't play that shit.

Here is my thing. I have and would say certain things about what goes on, however I would make it very clear that I am only with that person and not being a little hoe (or shall I say not letting Vaga run wild). And if the terms of our relationship was that in fact there was no relationship, then I can do and say what I please. For some reason there is a huge issue with women embracing their sexuality and because they are confident, they are looked at in a different light. I don't agree with that at all and call bullshit. So just because i've learned not to hate my body I have to cover up and be quiet? I don't think so.

Yes I love to walk around in my booty shorts in public, do I know the kind of attention it attracts? of course I do, I'm not fucking stupid. However no good statement/movement was ever made without shit talkers and criticism. Do I like to show off my double d's, damn right! I'm only 26!!

Or how guys get upset with their girl if they discuss the details of what goes down in the bedroom with their girls. My ex was always on my ass about that (not literally but Vaga wouldn't have objected) like seriously what is the big deal here? I never said, hey don't tell your boys, or don't talk about me..shit talk about me all you want and make your friends wish they could hit this, because at the end of the night, despite what agreement we have, I'm going home with you. And who doesn't want to get some of what no one else can get?!

2) As for my second statement, this one hits a small nerve. When a guy really gets into the sex he wants to start to say "this is my pussy" and as much as a woman loves for a guy to say that (well at least I do) I don't wanna hear it, if your actions in public will be different. Yes women tend to prefer to be dominated in the bedroom, however don't speak in such a controlling tone if you aren't ready to man up in public.

And let me clarify, what I mean by this is just don't say it if you don't wanna be my man and hold my hand. When you fuck with a woman who knows what she wants, don't be surprised when she treats you like any other guy and ends up getting serious with someone who is actually on her level. I had a conversation with a very good friend and told him "I feel like I'm too much woman for a guy" his response was "you know what, I've actually said that to someone about you" I started laughing and just thought I know I'm not the only woman to feel this way. Bottom line, sex is fun and great, and you can never go wrong with a little dirty talk, but certain things need to be straightened out before you blow my back out.