Because The Entree Ain't As Good Without Something On The Side

That's right, this is all about being the girl on the side.

Being a single woman here is one thing that I have learned to accept, if a guy is going to cheat, he will do it with whoever he can, so if he is hot and wants you, then why not?

My only rule about this is, I'll tell the guy be upfront about whether or not you are in a relationship or seeing someone. What you do is your business and I am no one to judge, so we can do what you want, just say what it is. Now ladies, if you are not comfortable with this then by no means am I encouraging you to do this. However if a friend of yours is doing this, then let them be. And I know you're thinking "Well he isn't your man so why should he have to be honest with you?" I'll tell you why, because I don't put up with that bullshit, which is exactly why he isn't my man, he wouldn't be able to handle me seriously.

Now of course I wouldn't be talking about this matter unless Vaga had her own personal experience with it!

First, experience was someone who I had history with. I knew he had a girlfriend, but like I said, that doesn't bother me. He had messaged me at 1am to "chill". First off I knew damn well that was a booty call, it was just funny because this guy hadn't spoken to me since he got with his girl. I go over, we are talking and he then started talking about the way I was dressed. (Mind you it was 1am when he hit me up and I was in bed) I was wearing my typical booty shorts with a t-shirt and no bra and just threw on a hoodie. He talked about wanting to see my underwear and I started laughing. I showed him and next thing I knew he was telling me to get naked. I started cracking up and said, I'll only get naked if you give me dick. To my surprise he said ok. So I started taking off my shorts, and told him again, "don't fuck with me, I'm not playing, are you gonna give me dick" he said "yea, I'll give it to you" and from that point Vaga went to town. We had sex for about 45min to an hour. It was great and put my ass to sleep!

Second experience was with a guy who I had hooked up with casually before when he was single. The next time we hooked up he told me after we fucked that he had a girl. I was surprised because he is not the kind of guy to be tied down to one woman. He talked about going to a baseball game and how he wanted to meet me in the parking lot to fuck on the hood of his car. I said "are you going to that game with your girl?" he said "No, I wouldn't do that to her to I actually like her" I started cracking up. He also told me I was the first person he cheated on her with.

One thing I believe to be true as to why men do this, either they are just not a one woman kind of guy, or something is missing at home. Nine out of ten times, something is missing from their partner that isn't satisfying them. It's usually either the sex is an issue, or they are trying to fill some type of void. I say this because this was exactly why I cheated on a previous guy I was in a relationship with. Emotionally I was fucked up and when I met someone who didn't do that to me, the sex was the best I've had in a long time.

Now to each their own, but I just feel as a single person you have no one to worry about, the person in the relationship does and if they don't care then why should you? I know not a lot of women will not agree with my point of view but it's just how Vaga sees the world from firsthand experience.