Trusty Tinder

This is where Vaga truly came in to her own.

After two heartbreaks and a terrible date, I decided why not try a dating app? I wasn't sure if the whole point of Tinder was to be quicker than Match.com or just to hook up. Well from first hand experience I believe two things. 1) It's what you make of it and 2) The majority of people on there just want to hook up.

After swiping right, a lot, I came into contact with a few guys, some I would regret, and some I just didn't care about. What I made out of Tinder was, I just wanted a hook up. I was in a really bad place emotionally when it came to guys and I didn't want to deal with any drama, and I was nowhere near ready for anything with anyone, but Vaga was always ready to get down. So I let her take control, and it was a great decision.

The funny thing about Tinder is, it's something that people always talk about but you never really know someone personally who is active on the app. I had no shame in what I was doing, because it was all I wanted. I didn't want a guy to do anything for me, just take me to bed and fuck me like your ex was watching!

Despite what people say, it really is quite liberating to be in control of your sex life. And if I was bored, best believe I was checking guys out and swiping left and right. It almost feels as though you have this power, and you get so excited about it. I would be with Tia, who is a happily married woman, and she would swipe with me just for fun. It puts the ease in dating, and if you know what you want from it, then have fun!

Dating should be fun, so make it fun for you, whatever your style is. Just because you took a more modern approach to your sex life, doesn't mean you have to be ashamed of it. Another thing is the attention you get from guys is nice.(But when they stand at attention is Vaga's favorite!) For me it was nice to get noticed, and know a guy was interested. Of course it was based off my looks and my boobs, but it still felt nice. After being told to lose weight, from both assholes I dated, it felt great that a complete stranger loved my curves. I know we should all be confident in our own right, but sometimes an extra boost from a complete stranger feels so fucking good!

As for the guys I met through Tinder, well Vaga has some stories for you so just stay tuned!