Mr. Johnson and Family

Don't bring someone around the family if it isn't serious. Well don't bring Vaga, she can get petty and she is pretty social even with her legs closed.

Remember, what goes around comes around.

It all started when Mr. Johnson and I randomly headed up north to visit some people who I have grown very close to. This was where I met one of my best friends and I didn't even know it yet. They are relatives of his and went out there on a whim. When we arrived to their house, he walked in, and like any indecisive man about his involvement with a girl, didn't even bother to introduce me. So I kindly and politely introduced myself.

Ladies, if he doesn't introduce you as anything, or in my case, at all, then just smile and say your name. There is always a time and place to settle the score, but don't do it right in front of family that you met 2 seconds ago. Also his mistake by doing this is he leaves his family open to thinking you're his girl. It's always assumed, so if you get alone time just address yourself as a friend. Trust me, this is respectful, and he will give you plenty of opportunities to slap some sense in his ass.

Continuing on, while he was spending time with the male relative, I made conversation with his relatives wife. You know girl stuff, and we talked about the drive, how we knew each other, and just small talk. Sometimes you meet someone, and get this amazing feeling about them. Now I'm not talking about romantically, I'm talking about just realizing someone is a genuine person. Well this was who she is and her name is Tia.

And even though Mr. Johnson and I no longer really have communication, that has nothing to do with my relationship regarding Tia and her husband. Mr. Johnson gave me a few regrets, however, I can't regret meeting him or spending so much time with him. He brought me to her, and I don't know what I would do without her at this point in my life. Yes I know this all sounds a little gay (something Vaga loves also) but don't we get gay about our besties here and there? I know I do!

It's been about a year since me and Tia met and we talk every single day. The whole point of this, is if you have a connection with someone, never let a guy dictate whether or not it's ok. Did he like that me and Tia got close? Fuck no! he said he didn't care, but come on he is a guy who had no serious intentions with me and I was very close with part of his family. Of course it is going to get on his last nerve. Did I care? Fuck no! Did it help that I spent all three holidays with him and his family? You guessed it, nope. Was I excited to see Tia at this events? Fuck yes! because I didn't know anyone else and we made some awesome memories.

Hey Tia, I love you and I am so glad we met. I'm even more grateful that we stayed friends! Because who else understands everything in my mind about Mr. Johnson?!