A Little Beginning
- Sarah Butler
- Aug 17, 2016
- 3 min read
This is where it all began. Now to make a long story short my ex was an asshole who treated me like shit and I cheated on him. Yes I know how terrible it is, but I admit to it and take full responsibility. However that was not even close to the reason as to why I broke up with him. Aside from discovering amazing sex with someone else, I realized there are plenty of guys who will treat me as a decent human being, but still be a fuckboy with a nice personality. Vaga has difficulty weeding out the fuckboys because all she wants is the D!
After being with the same person for many years you learn a thing or two about sex. I know it's hard to believe but it's true. You become so comfortable with someone that a few things you try out and can be a practice run, then perform the right way next time. One thing I perfected is giving head. Yes I'm saying it loud and proud "I like to suck dick". Nothing to be ashamed of ladies! trust me your man will be happy that his girl knows what she is doing down there, you just don't have to give him full disclosure on how you got so good!
Anal, let me tell you when we experimented with that, at first I wasn't the biggest fan, but once I got through the first stages of it, it was mind-blowing. Since we broke up I have never done that with anyone else. (Vaga doesn't complain, she's a whore) The reason being, your asshole is such a sensitive and dirty place. So if something happens to go wrong it would be so much better if it was with someone who you are completely comfortable with on every level. If you can't laugh during sex with this person, then he shouldn't stick his dick in your ass.
Receiving head, not all mouths are created equal. One thing my ex left me with were high standards for a mans mouth on Vaga. She is a sensitive flower and some guys go down there like they are trying to smooth out sand paper! For fucks sake, be gentle! A girl won't necessarily say this because yes during sex we are all vulnerable, but there is always a nice way to put it. From experience I've said "softer" and Vaga was pleasantly surprised.
Rough sex? Fuck yes. Another thing my ex taught me. I like it rough. Slap my ass until its red, pull the shit out of my hair and please wrap your hand around my neck for the best feeling ever. Now don't leave me bruised, and don't choke me until I can't breathe, but somewhere in between is great. If a girl says "be as rough as you want" she means it. She isn't trying to be nice, she is trying to tell you to man the fuck up and stop being a little bitch in the bedroom. No girl wants to feel like she just fucked a bitch, its not great, Vaga doesn't like to recall those experiences.
69? A favorite of my ex's but not mine. I either like to completely focus on my partner or receive. Never both at the same time, at least I don't work that way and I think most women feel the same. Why did I do it? because he liked it and it wasn't the worst thing in life.
Anything I missed? let me know and I'll be happy to share. Hope you enjoyed my first post and there will be plenty more!
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